Friday, March 29, 2013

Fabulous Friday - It does not get more fabulous than Good Friday!

Happy Good Friday!

It def does not get more fabulous than Good Friday - and that is an understatement! Today is the day that our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ died on the cross for every single one of us. His death washes me of all of my sin and allows me to live with him forever in his kingdom. I think I got the better end of that deal!


"When he had received the drink, Jesus said, "It is finished." With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit." John 19:30

And now a little old school throwback family Easter photo from around 1987. Gotta love it!


Have a blessed Good Friday and Easter weekend!

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Random Thursday - Mosh Pit Style

1. While saying our prayers at night, we always thank God for something from that day. When asking Sophie last night what she was thankful for she was quiet for a moment and then said - Mommy. Ok - wow! Then I had to explain to her that the tears coming from mommies eyes were happy tears, not sad tears.

2. We sit on the front row of the balcony at church. Sometimes, I picture myself jumping off the balcony and the people below catching me - mosh pit style.


3. I will sometimes pass off goodies from the store as though they were homecooked. I feel this is my right as a working mommy. It does not happen alot but every now and then it may or may not take place. Most recently for my sisters house warming gift. If you have ever seen the movie with Sarah Jessica Parker - "I Don't Know How She Does It" there is a scene thats speaks to this action perfectly!


4. I would LOVE to be on the amazing race with Jeff! We are both soooo competitive and I think we would do good....seriously I do! My biggest issue would be the fact that I was only allowed to carry a small backpack. For anyone who does not know me, my suitcase for just one overnight is massive and on wheels. And of course getting ready in the morning would probably be a problem too because I would need to wash and dry my hair and put on all my makeup which of course I would have to have my makeup mirror for because otherwise it will just not look right. But once the competition started, you better watch out.


5. I love having my sandwich cut in half in triangles. Not sure why but it just makes me smile! Maybe it reminds me of when I was little and would open up my lunch at school that my mom would have packed for me. She would sometimes include a little surprise card in with my lunch and that was the best!! It would always make me feel so special!

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Wifey Wednesday - Nonverbal Cues

As I sit down to write this blog I realize that I really don't have anything to write about today. Wifey Wednesday has been one of those blog days where I have to stop and think for a moment on what I have to share. I don't like the fact that it doesn't just flow through me like the other days and this revelation caused me to stop and think - is that because my role as a wife sometimes takes a backseat to my many other roles so therefore it is just not on the forefront of my mind? Well shoot - I think I may be on to something here.
 
When it comes to my hubby, I am the queen of...well how should I say it? Let's be gentle and call them - nonverbal cues.


Much to my dismay, after almost twelve years together, he has caught on to these cues and knows exactly when they are coming and what they imply. His dangerous knowledge means he then has the ability to call me out on them. Sadly, I even try to sometimes argue with him - "No, I did not just roll my eyes at you and I can't believe you would accuse me of something like that when all I am doing is just sitting here trying to have a conversation with you." As I have mentioned before, since he does not read my blog he will never know my admission of guilt!
 
I came across a great article Ten Things Your Spouse Needs To Hear You Say on one of the blogs I follow. I loved the list and wanted to be sure to share it. You can find the more detailed version of the list via the link above. For now, I am just sharing the cliffnote version below.
  1. I need you - We must never stop needing each other and showing each that we need each other.
  2. I am praying for you - Letting your spouse know that you are praying for them deepens the intimacy.
  3. Please, Thank you - Such words reflect our attitude of love, respect, appreciation, honor, and awe.
  4. I love you because - This builds our spouses up in a deeper way.
  5. You are beautiful/handsome - We need to hear we are beautiful in each others eyes.
  6. I believe in you - We are made to be affirmed.
  7. No - Most couples are opposites in terms of personality. We bring different strengths into the relationship and balance each other out.
  8. I am sorry, forgive me - real repentance means acknowledging your faults and making a turn to become better.
  9. What do you think - we need to involve each other in the decision making processes. It affirms our partnership.
  10. You are my hero - make it about the things your spouse does well.
What person in their right mind would not want to hear those things from their spouse right?! Now I am going to work on practicing what I preach.....and of course putting a nix on my nonverbal cues.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Tummy Tuesday - Wraps and Resurrection

Let me just tell you - after two weeks of being sick and not having an apetite, its finally back! I am someone who LOVES food so its like welcoming back an old friend.

As we all know in our house with two working parents we are all about quick, easy, and yummy recipes.Grilled Cheeseburger Wraps is one of our favorite go-to meals!


We usually pair some Mac N Cheese with the wraps and tada! VERY yummy dinner!

With Good Friday and Easter upon us, I wanted to find a project to do this weekend with Sophie that would help her understand the TRUE meaning of Easter. As fun as the Easter Bunny and his treats are, Easter is about our Lord and Savior sending his son to die on the cross for us so that we may be forgiven for all of our horrible sins and have everlasting life with him in heaven. Whew - wow! This life is fleeting but because of Jesus dying on that cross, having nails driven THROUGH his hands and feet while being beat, WE get to live for forever in his heavenly Kingdom. A kingdom where there is nothing but love. Umm - yes please! Can you even imagine the sacrifice that he made for us? Or how Mary felt trusting in God's plan while watching her son die the most horrendus of deaths? I cannot even fathom and am embarrassed at the life of continous sin that I lead. However, that is the awesome thing about being a Christian and following Jesus - we don't have to be perfect because we are forgiven and washed new every single day in his unconditional love for us. He knows, understands, and accepts the fact that I am a work in progress but still try my very best to live every day for him.

Sorry - I did not meant to get sidetracked but when you stop to think for a second - WOW! God is good huh?!

Back on track - Resurrection Cookies. I found this recipie on Pinterest and it looks awesome. I think it will be a great way to continue to share with Sophie how much Jesus loves us while using the recipe to share the Easter story with her. We are not really big fans of pecans in our house but for Sophie to fully understand and embrace the lesson behind the recipe, we will make it work!


Please do not be fooled because the picture above is not of my cookies. Yes, I know you are in disbelief to learn that shocking revelation! I feel fairly certain that mine will not turn out that pretty. However, it's all about the process for this recipe so enjoy!! 

Monday, March 25, 2013

Mommy Monday - I'm Back!!

No, I have not already dropped the ball on keeping up with my blog - I promise! Our house has been the house of sickness for the past two years....wait, I meant to say two weeks, sorry! It only felt like two years!

It all began on a very early Monday morning that started off like any other day. However, I noticed that I seemed to be feeling a bit a under the weather. Lucky for me and chalking it up to my SUPER FLY immunity system, it only really lasted for about two days and then I felt back to normal. As I skipped back into work once again thinking about how awesome it is that I NEVER get sick, my girl was in the beginning stages of a double ear infection. So we all know how that ended - fever central by the next day!


Look at those flushed cheeks!! I must admit, as much as I hate having my girl sick, I sooo love the cuddle time!

By Saturday night, Sophie started feeling back to normal again but little did I know it was only the beginning. The next day, I was hit by the Mack Truck of sickness which was traveling at a very high rate of speed. We had just arrived home from church and I remember thinking, "Man, these allergies are out of control today." And I do believe that was the last lucid thought I had until exactly one week later which was yesterday morning.

I am 33 years old and truly cannot remember the last time I felt that horrible and was knocked on my tail for so long. I am not even kidding, I thought I was dying. By about seven every night, I would throw myself on the bed (only after it had taken me all day to muster the strength and energy to move from the couch) while Jeff did bath time with Sophie. I would cry that something must be wrong and I must be dying. I would stare out the window and think that this was it. This was now going to be the rest of my life. This is how it all goes down. I would never feel normal again.  Of course, after my crying episode, what little ability I still had to breath would now be completely gone and I would also be the proud owner of a throbbing headache. My whole body hurt! I could not breath, nasty cough, and constantly felt as though I was on a rocking ship which was beyond horrible! No energy to move or even eat so you know I had fallen on hard times! After finally breaking down and heading to the doctor, I was diagnosed with a double ear infection, sinus infection, and bronchitis. I remember my first thought - "Well, at least I am not crazy or dying, just sick." Being a mama, it takes alot to knock you completely on your tail so when it does, WOWZA!

Sophie and Jeff were very good nurses while I was out of commission. Sophie asked that we take a picture since she was having so much fun taking care of me. You can tell we took the picture at the very beginning of it all because A) I am able to hold the phone to take a picture B) I don't yet look like death and C) I still have that naive look in my eye as to what all is about to go down in the next week. No clue how I will see my life flash, or rock back and forth like a boat, before my very eyes.


Fingers, toes, and everything else crossed that today is our first day out of the cloud of sickness. I welcome back our everyday life and routine with open arms!  

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Tummy Tuesday - Comfort Food

Yet another sick day today so I thought some comfort food would only be fitting. Also, with the cold days numbered (yippeeeeeeeeee!!!!) I thought it would be best to enjoy this yummy soup while you still can. I don't know about you but to me soup and a warm day just does not jive. Best of all the it's Weight Watchers and you can't even tell!
 
With my boycott of Subway (see recent post) I thought it would be a good idea to find a replacement recipe for their meatball sub. Success! The recipe was delicious but the only change I would have I would have made would be to exchange the dinner rolls for sub bread. Jeff also mentioned having these meatballs with our spaghetti recipe. I knew I married this man for a good reason!

Monday, March 11, 2013

Mommy Monday - Sick Day

Sophie and I are both home sick today. Proceed with caution - makeup free zone!


Even though I am sick - I still have to work from home. Isn't being a grown up so great?! On the plus side I was unusually early to work this morning because I didn't have to stand in my closet for 2 hours while trying to decide what to wear.

Another nice thing about sick days is that you get to stay in your PJ's all day long without any feelings of guilt! It seriously does not get any better then that because the guilt of "being lazy" gets me every time. I think as a mama, sitting down and not doing anything is a really hard feat because there is always something somewhere that needs to be done. When you are sick though, it knocks you on your tooshie and you don't have a choice but to lay on the couch.

Now come close because I want to share something with you. Maybe its the medicine talking but....I really love the Dollar Tree. Now, I am not a big a fan of the lack of cleaniness and the lack of organization puts my OCD on full alert. And even though it is like a smaller more enclosed version of Wal-Mart, which can be scary at times, they do have some neat little things. In light of the Easter Bunny visiting soon, I thought it would be nice to share my secret. Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be purchasing my Christmas gifts there anytime soon but items like gift bags, bows, tags, drawer liner, ribbon, and trinkets for a certain 3 year olds Easter basket are perfect! Trust me!

Time for our next round of medicine!


Friday, March 8, 2013

Fabulous Friday - Tanks & Tutus

TGIF!

Nothing like a little sunshine to get you excited for the weekend and warm weather!!

Speaking of sunshine - how super fab is this shirt?!

I love that fact that its flowy and not so tight and fitted. Allows the shirt to still look cute and stylish rather than sloppy!!

How super fabulous and cute is this sweet baby girl?! I just had to share!


As much as I would love to claim the outfit idea myself, I can't. Luckily I have a facebook friend who was gracious enough to share the idea and details. Sophie wore it for her Dr. Seuss day at school. Don't you just love it though? What little girl (or big girl for that matter) does not love a tutu? As our Gigi says, you can never had too many tutu's!

P.S. - They have a ton of super precious tutus at TJ Maxx right now for only $10!! Maybe Mommy will get one after all. Daddy may like it! ;)

TGIF!

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Random Thursday - Heaven is For Real

Did you catch the History Channels Sunday evening debut of  "The Bible" miniseries? It was beyond words! It really amazed me to see how these stories that I know so well, came to life on the television. It made me realize that sometimes I forget how they were living and breathing human beings just as we are today! I have known these stories my entire life and yet watching them in motion touched me and moved me! And as much as I love (even though I shouldn't) my junk tv, it sure was nice for a change to watch something that does not involve horrible language and alot of inappropriate sex related scenes.

If you missed it this past Sunday, no need to fear! I am sure they will show it again between now and Sunday and with the help of one of the greatest inventions ever - the DVR, you should be all set. Click here to find out your viewing times.


Have you ever read "Heaven is For Real"? This book is again, beyond words. I read it about a year ago and it really touched me!! His story and descriptions made things come alive. The way that he describes heaven and Jesus - wow! The love that our Lord has for us and the glory we will receive in heaven is something that we cannot even begin to imagine!


I am proud to say that I have always had a strong relationship with God. Of course there have been times in my life when I have strayed from the path but never too far. However, in the past six months or so, I have felt as though my relationship has gone to a whole new level. The increasing thirst and hunger for his word and worship and wanting to share his love with others is exciting. At the same time, I have also been in transition with my career. Don't be confused, I have no regrets and more importantly no doubt that I am exactly where God intended me to be. However, there is a big question mark looming with the direction and future of my career. Due to that question mark, obviously alot of fear as well. And for someone who tends to be a bit of control freak (to put it mildly), this is a really tough and scary pill to swallow. 

While watching "The Bible" series Sunday evening, I felt so silly for my worries. God parted the Red Sea for Moses and his people....HE PARTED THE SEA!


Are you kidding me? He raised his son from the dead! But yet, I worry about not knowing the direction or path for my career? Given his resume, I think taking care of me and my career is small potatoes! He's got this so why do I even waste my time with worry? I guess the only answer is that I'm human. Every day I battle myself to not become consumed with the worry and fear. I feel as though I am in a time of transition and God has some exciting and possibly unexpected things in store for me! To be continued...

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Tummy Tuesday - Don't Judge

There is nothing I love more after a long day at work then a warm homecooked dinner. However, with two working parents, the only way to make it happen in our house is by using recipes that are fairly quick and easy.

Baked Ravoli is a regular on our dinner rotation and one of our favorites! This meal could not be any easier and is super yummy. We always have leftovers which is also a big plus!

Tim Tebow's mom shared one of her families favorite meals when visiting Good Morning America last year. She said that her Pizza Pie is a signature in her house and I can certainly understand why! Pure yumminess!


In honor of Girl Scout cookie season - Thin Mint Cookie Truffles. They are heavenly and really easy to make. Sophie loved helping and I was extremely impressed with her finger licking ability!

The only downfall is that Jeff was unable to find Green Mint Chips so we used basic chocolate chips instead. The truffles were still amazing and my assistant chef insisted on topping them off with some sprinkles.


Don't judge! We had to eat one to make sure they were safe for everyone else!


Monday, March 4, 2013

Mommy Monday - MNM's

As much as I love M&M candies (especially in a tub of buttery popcorn at the movie theatre), I am actually referencing a different type of MNM's - Mommies Need Mommies. The longer I am a mommy, the more I realize the importance of having your mommy network. Women who love you, encourage you, and can relate to your life. Sometimes all you need is to hear from others that you are not alone and/or crazy and that there are other mommies out there with the same obstacles as you!

Through my new world of blogging I have come across some amazing and Godly women who share their lives as mommies and wives. It was through one of these blogs that I recently discovered the .MOM Conference. The annual Lifeway conference is described as "a weekend that will encourage and refresh you, connect you with other moms, celebrate motherhood, and draw you closer to Christ.  dotMOM is for moms of all ages with kids of all ages."

Are you kidding me? Sign me up and when do we leave?! What a genius concept and awesome opporotunity for moms to come together in fellowship while sharing stories and laughter! Apparently they have the conference in many different locations so be sure to find the one closest to you. As for my girlfriends reading this right now - mark your calendar for our girls weekend. Best part of all is that we get to stay local!

While reading all about the dotmom conference, I stumbled upon http://thebigmamablog.com/. I loved reading her blog and even discovered that this multitasking mama has recently written a book!! I figured that with a title such as "Sparkly Green Earrings" the book and author were def someone I would love! Its a fun read about the good, the bad, the ugly, and most of all the tremendous blessing of mommyhood. It has received nothing but rave reviews and I seriously cannot wait to get to the bookstore this week to snatch it up!

All of this mommy girl power has me fired up!! Maybe I should start the MNM network. Our first meeting will be held at the movie theatre over some buttery popcorn!

Friday, March 1, 2013

Fabulous Friday - Bangles and Bubbles

Do you ever have times where you cannot remember if you actually shared your thought or just thought about sharing it? With that in mind, sorry if I have already shared this declaration of love but - I simply ADORE  all the bright colors for this spring/summer. They make me so very happy which is much appreciated because about this time every year I am so over the dreary cold weather and all the clothes that go along with it!

This spring/summer will be the first one in three years where I am finally back at my prepregnancy weight -YAY! Better late then never though right?! With that being said, I am really excited to embrace some creativity with my wardrobe but its sometimes hard for me to do. Often, I know what I love but cannot quite figure out how to pull it all together. It becomes so complicated and stressful I end up just sticking with what I know which is cute but def the same ole. Now with the assistance of Pinterest my creativity awakens or maybe I should say broadens, with the help of visual aides!

First up - Bangles!!! Love the look of the layered bangles. They can give a casual summer outfit that extra bit of pop. I recently discovered that you can find them for super cheap at Forever 21!

 Not a great picture but you get the idea.

The basic white tee with colored shorts and a bubble necklace is classic. One of my favorite examples of it is from the blog and accompanying picture below!

Since I already have the necklace and top, the shorts are all I would need to hunt down. Old Navy has some really cute colored shorts this season and of course at a reasonable price.

We are heading to Disney World for Sophie's fourth bday at the end of April and of course I will be purchasing some new extra special Princess Dresses for her first Disney experience. You can imagine my excitement this morning when I opened my email and saw - Fairy tale fashion 25% off and free shipping! Now I just have to find a place to hide the dresses for the next two months bc I swear my child is like a hound dog and can sniff a princess dress anywhere within the vicinity!


Happy Shopping and TGIF!!!