In the past few months I have become hypersensitive to little eyes and ears watching everything we say and do. As Sophie grows and become more aware of her surroundings and actions, it is more important now than ever that Jeff and I provide a strong example of a Godly, healthy, and loving marriage.
Jeff and I love laughing together. A few evenings ago we were joking around with each other as we were cleaning the kitchen after dinner. Jeff made a joke and Sophie's little head whipped around on her shoulders and without missing a beat she said - "Daddy, don't talk to Mommy like that." We both just stopped and stared at each other with our mouths hanging open. Of course, we explained to her that Mommy and Daddy were just playing around and being silly but yet again we were shown what a strong impression our relationship together has on her.
The way that Jeff helps around the house, showers us with hugs and kisses, dances with me in the kitchen, and many other things are all qualities that Sophie will one day look for in her husband. The way that I take care of Jeff, provide affection, encouraging words of support and appreciaton, and many other things are all ways that Sophie will learn to be a wife. Most importantly, showing Sophie how to have God at the center of her marriage because our heavenly Father provides the best foundation of all. With his help, we are laying a strong fundation that will last her a lifetime.
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